By Rob Fisher, Antonia Vanaro, and Karuna Holm Infidelity is one of the most destabilizing events a couple can face. It disrupts not only trust, but the shared reality that holds a relationship together. What was once assumed we are on the same team, I know who you are, this is a safe place suddenly becomes uncertain. Yet in our work with couples, we have seen a wide range of outcomes. Some relationships collapse under the weight of betrayal. Others endure but remain brittle

By Antonia Vanoro Infidelity is one of the most destabilizing events a couple can face. It doesn’t simply introduce conflict. .. it ruptures the very foundation on which the relationship was built. The shared sense of “we are on the same team” collapses. The implicit trust that “I know who you are” is shaken. The relationship, that was once felt as place of refuge, can suddenly feel dangerous and unpredictable and trigger shock in the nervous system. When betrayal is discove

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